My ex is trying to take our dog back so she can euthanize her.

Question

My ex acquired the dog as a puppy. She was already 5 when she came into my life. Around September of 2022, the ex asked me to take the dog, saying she’s better off with me. She offered to provide for food and vet expenses. I never asked my ex for any reimbursement and the dog food. The dog had just been put on a specialized kidney diet, which is rather expensive when you compare it to other dog food and requires a prescription. Now the dog is 16 with kidney disease but responding really well to treatment. She began having some health issues in September of this year and my ex is demanding the dog be euthanized. After having given her to me to care for she is now asking to take her so she can have her put down. I’m refusing to hand her over for this reason as well as the fact she is better off with me. Do I have a case?

Illinois, USA

Answer

People who give away their animal generally have no further rights to that animal, including no right to determine when/if the animal should be euthanized. In the meantime, it may be helpful to have on hand evidence that the dog was given to you (even texts and emails), that the dog has been in your possession for an extended period of time, veterinary records (if they include your name), receipts for dog food and other expenses paid for the dog's care, and any other proof of “parenthood.”  I hope this all works out in the best interests of the dog.